Making small talk with new people may be the thing that can make anyone feel like a panic attack and the reason why you hesitate to meet new people.
However, humans are social creatures. Even though opening up a conversation with a stranger may seem difficult, you still have to communicate to get the information you need in your daily life.
You may be able to talk about anything with people you have been in close contact with for a long time. However, keep in mind that there are some topics of conversation that you should never ask new people! Reporting from Business Insider, here's the list.
"What's Your Salary?"
The nominal rupiah that a person earns is a super personal matter. So, don't be rude and insensitive by asking this to someone you're meeting for the first time.
If you're really curious, just ask where he works and research yourself about the nominal income earned by employees at the company.
"Which Party Vote?"
Maybe many people are not aware of basic ethics not to discuss the political side that someone chooses at the first meeting. I hope you're not one of them!
If it turns out that it was the other person who started the conversation, try to keep the topic of conversation based on facts, not subjective and emotional opinions. Especially if the chosen candidate is different.
"When is the HPL?"
For those who don't know, HPL stands for Estimated Birth Day. Yes, this is a very common question addressed to pregnant women. However, what if the person you ask is not pregnant? You successfully offended someone!
Even if the person you are asking is pregnant, the question is too personal to be asked at the first meeting. Unless the other person brings up the topic first, try talking about something else.
"Heard About ..., Haven't?"
It doesn't take a genius to realize the purpose of this opening question. Yes, what if it's not gossip?
You should know that spreading gossip makes you look worse than the person you are talking about. Especially if the things you talk about reach the ears of the rumored person.
So, choose wisely the topic of conversation with people you just know, OK!